Burt’s asking me who I am is creating a fault line in my self- confidence.
I mean, I am still pretty sure who I am. Just not always sure who he thinks I am.
When it was clear, for instance, that his pushy wife was becoming a pain, I was able to own up. I said yes, that’s me, and I am sorry. I will try to do better.
I think this was fair, respectful, and honest.