I think I know why it’s so difficult to redirect Burt. This may apply to your loved one as well, though I have heard rumors of pwds being easily put on an alternate path.
My guy looked so puzzled when I tried to change course. I believe it has to do with how slowly he can process what he hears.
At least that’s part of the reason for his resistance. He is also very solidly a stubborn man.
this is our life 