Speaking of gratitude

As I suggested to you, because it was suggested to me, it really helps us focus on the caring when we note at least one positive interaction with the one we love.

I dare say, this is true in civilian life also but for us who are caregivers, it’s a monumental help.

I had two dramatically beautiful positives to note in the past two weeks.

I will note that just the small improvement in Burt over the last few weeks was a positive as well. His increased awareness and engagement led to these lovely moments with me.

Feeling that I had been neglectful while preparing his breakfast and enjoying mine, I came into the bedroom. I took his hand and said «you put up with a lot from me and I appreciate it.« Burt did not skip a beat. Looking straight at me, he said «I appreciate you.«

That still brings tears to my eyes.

This week when I paused feeding him to say I love you, Burt extended his hands in a clap. It’s touching when a declaration of love gets applause.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

There are many small positives in our engagement with the ones we love we can applaud.

Burt is often funny. He loves to make a joke and will laugh at it heartily. These are day in, day out sweet exchanges we share.

As I document them here or in my journal, I am grateful.