Burt really perked up during a visit this week. Our guest was someone we’ve known for many years; Burt didn’t remember him but he was a happier guy than he’d been in awhile.
He even made an effort to get out of bed to go to his recliner. He told jokes.
Visits break up the monotony of Burt’s days. He’s bored.
Although it could count as a visit, his birthday party wasn’t as grand for him as I would have liked. This one-on-one visit worked better.
Of course, I knew a crowd (i.e more than 4 of us in the room) is harder on him.
He had really enjoyed his 84th but he was a little sharper, more mobile. He was also able to focus on one of our many visitors that day. He was chattier than he was at his 85th.
The routine of having OT or PT helps with the boredom, too.
Activities would help, if only. My “work boxes” have not stirred his interest.
I have to up my game. The Play-Doh I bought might work. Planning. Scheming. Hoping to engage him.
More visits are definitely going on our calendar.
this is our life 