Burt was my photo model and this is one of my [many, many] favorite shots. There’s a teasing smirk in the smile, yet the fun is there. He noted when I took pictures of him and was pleased to have the camera turned towards him. I am pleased to have such a treasure trove ofContinue reading “Reminiscing”
Category Archives: Grief and Gratitude
The last 5 years
There are so many pictures of Burt, mostly during the journey, but a lot of us at ballgames, on walks having fun. The photos perch on every free surface in both rooms or sit tacked to the wall. Our wedding photos, and an album, are also part of the decor. The photographic reminders take meContinue reading “The last 5 years”
Burt’s memorial plate, my memory
The plaque in memory of Burt is in its place in the God’s Love We Deliver kitchen. I will be checking it out in person soon. It’s fair to say that, in fact, time dulls memory. You want to remember all the highlights from years together. At least I do. And, mostly, I can. SomeContinue reading “Burt’s memorial plate, my memory”
Those last months
Today, thanks to those of you who’ve read my archive of writings in the last few days, I was led to revisit some blog posts from January 2025. These were documenting the last days of our journey. I know that now, so my re-reading was extremely poignant and tearful. I am so grateful for thisContinue reading “Those last months”
Burt’s watch
Love poems
Yesterday, I was looking at some poems I had written. Many of them were love poems written to Burt. The ones that made my eyes tear are dated early in February of last year. I murmured to myself (and maybe to Burt’s photos), I was always writing you love poems.
You didn’t ask….
Unsolicited advice. I know! you never want to hear it. If you think about it, you probably don’t want to give it either. This entire blog is an exercise in giving advice. The advice I give is from my experience during a heart-wrenching journey with Lewy Body. No one asked, but I am here telling.Continue reading “You didn’t ask….”
this is our life 